Danny Gilbert Haywood

Danny Gilbert Haywood, a man of unwavering dedication to both his family and his country, passed away peacefully at his home in Mechanicsville, Virginia, on February 28, 2024, at the age of 77. Born to the late Thomas and Josephine Haywood on September 25, 1946, Danny spent his formative years alongside his two brothers in Portsmouth, Virginia.

Danny’s life was marked by service and sacrifice. After graduating from Woodrow Wilson High School, he answered the call to duty and joined the U.S. Marine Corps. His valor and commitment during his tour of duty in Vietnam earned him two Purple Hearts, a testament to his courage and resilience.

Upon returning from the battlefield, Danny pursued higher education at Virginia Tech, where he earned a degree in mechanical engineering. His career continued in service to his nation, with several years at the Naval Surface Warfare Center. It was here that he honed his engineering skills, drawing from both his combat experience and his unwavering belief in safeguarding the warfighter. This principle guided him throughout his entire career. In his final role as Director of Ground Weapons at Marine Corps Systems Command at Quantico, Danny worked tirelessly to enhance the safety of his fellow marines in combat. His dedication and expertise earned him numerous commendations, including the prestigious Chinn award for significant contributions to small arms and infantry weapons systems.

Beyond his professional achievements, Danny had a rich and diverse life. He found solace and joy in woodworking, the rhythmic dance of a fly-fishing line, and the intricate art of model building (both cars & tanks). His passion extended to his grandchildren, who affectionately called him “Poppy.”

Danny was a man of contrasts—strong-willed and stubborn, yet possessing an enormous heart and an infectious sense of humor. His loyalty and bravery defined him as a true warrior. He will forever be remembered for the love he shared with his family and friends.

Danny leaves behind a legacy of love and memories. He is survived by his devoted wife, Pam; his daughters, Kadee(Jeff) and Beckie(Scot); his brother, David(Janet); three stepchildren; five cherished grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews. Their lives were enriched by his presence, and his absence will be deeply felt.

A Celebration of Life in honor of Danny will be held at the historic Hanover Tavern 13181 Hanover Courthouse Road, Hanover, Virginia on March 9 at 12:30. An open lunch reception will be held immediately following the services. Let us gather to celebrate his remarkable journey, share stories, and bid farewell to a true patriot and beloved family man.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to The Michael J. Fox Foundation, The Parkinson’s Foundation or the American Cancer Society.